those words strike the fear of God in the heart of any woman who hears them and almost  every woman has. You head spins. your heart races. what does it mean? I’ll tell waht it means and you probably wont like it. It means he is thinking about ending the relationship, but hes either not totaly sure. Or he doesnt have the balls to dump you outright. I learned from experienced.

When the guy say so of course he is goin to expect a big upset. Give him just the opposite. Do not questions and do not start quizzing him about the parameters of your new special agreement. Even though you know that you might die, if you dont know the new rules. dont ask.Take some initiative and set the new rules your self. Space means space. No TEXT, EMAIL, NO CALLS until such time he dicided the space issue has passed. The more space between you the faster it will come. If you wont hear from hear for weeks keep your self busy and pack up the things he left that reminds you. However if you if you will hear from him in few days . He will befuddled by your absence. He will call to see if you are alive. keep it short. No relationship while he still need SPACE.

The best antidote to a man who need space is being interesting, alluring,  and totaly unavailable. If he calls and wants to “hook up” politely let him know, you are too tired from your activities.

The truth is that  if he says he needs more space , that is a good indicator you are quite possibly over investing your time and energy into the relationship ( its true that was his reason when he told me he wanted SPACE). Let that be an indicator that you need to adjust your course and give him the opportunity to pursue you a bit. Men are abit like dogs. If you chase them  they run, but if you walk away , they will almost always follow you down the street.